I know, I'm sorry :( I almost felt guilty posting this after what you said. However this was all written even before I posted chapter one online so it was always going to be sex then working out the issues afterwards. Actually I think I'd written to chapter 15 before I even started posting so I haven't even caught up to that yet, although I have written nearly to the end now. There is definitely be a lot of the 'why' in later chapters though as well as Draco taking back control :)